Richard Grisham

So here's the deal. I've been working at my company for 9 years now, making a good living and sort of enjoying what I do. Since the company got bought this time last year, though, things have steadily gotten less interesting, more stressful, less enjoyable, and overall kind of depressing.

So I've been interviewing, and there's a new company that wants to hire me as their Director of Professional Services. A nice raise (but not an extravagant one), a longer commute (that does not involve taking the train anymore), and the ability to go back to a small software development company and make a real difference.

If I leave my current job, I'll also be forfeiting a nice annual bonus that is to be paid in November, one that will really come in handy since my wife is no longer getting a paycheck now that she's a full-time Mom.  The job offer I have now won't wait until then, or they'll continue their search. On the other hand, the new place will pay a pro-rated bonus in the first quarter of 2008, but that will be only 33% of what I would get later this year.

This is going to be the toughest decision of my life. I have less than a week to make it, and I have no idea what to do.